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Building a Team

One for all and all for one. This is what we heard  in a certain team and it  boost their confidence as a group  Building a team and being a team is not easy, each member must be able to meet with the team’s goals and aims. It must be cooperative and being responsible to every work to do. There are some characteristics to have, for a team to be effective and come up with a good result. One of this is mutual trusts. This is not build only for a second or minute, it takes time to be built and only a short time to be destroyed. Mutual trust in a certain way that they believe one another. They believe in their potential and abilities that every member possesses. For one situation that you had a group, a new formed group, and each one of you had given assign works to do and you did not make it, your co-members believe in your abilities  that you can make and it was failed maybe next time they will not give you  another works to do because you failed them.

 

They don’t trust you anymore. Building a team should have mutual understanding and teamwork. Expressing one’s feeling, opinion and queries are necessary  to have a better works in which every member respects each other. And with this purpose it will help them to collect and to gain their knowledge on what is the goal of their work. Mutual support is build when every member or group has genuine concern for its co-member where in everyone is ready to give time and energy in protecting and accomplishing the task given. Genuine communication gives emphasis to the quality and openness and authenticity of the member of the words she/he says or speaks about, where there is equal evaluation, no biases to whatever information given. Accepting conflicts as normal and working them is differences among members, still with their goals they are united. Every conflict must be talked or discussed by the group to arrive a good and decisive solution to the problem. Lastly, since members of a group have its own individual differences, they must be respected so that every member is given a chance to speak out their side, and it will lead harmoniously. They are committed to their team and they are willing to do the best and share their abilities to the group. One for all and all for one should maintain in a team.

i want something that satisfies me..

 

a person who will understand me..

 

even if i have the atittude…

 

for always being so rude..

 

i want someone who will comfort me…

 

something so unusual for me…

 

a person who will truly loved me..

 

and a person who will accept me..

 

i hope someday i could find another you…

 

loved and cared by someone like you…

 

who would understand me all the time..

 

but never betray me like you do..

My girlfriend wrote: 

HOPING and WAITING for your COMFORT….

i dont know WHAT TO DO….

i dont know WHAT TO SAY ….

i dont know HOW….

and i dont know WHY….

i hope you still LOVE me….

i hope you still CARE for me….

i hope were OK….

Bee,

There are no words to express the gratitude I feel in my heart that
our hearts have come to dwell together, as one. You are my life,
my heart, my soul. You are my Knight and Shinning armor. You are my one true love.
The day we met was fate. Our lives intertwining was fate. You are my
destiny. I love you more today than I did yesterday, and I’ll love you
more tomorrow than I do today. Love is the only thing that makes life
worth living. Your love. With all my heart I am forever yours…

My reply:

beE! even though we have a misunderstanding last saturday, you know how much I love you and how much I value as my love one. You are so precious too me and If you will leave me, I will choose to die rather than to leave in the world without you in my life. When the time come will I die, I will not go to heaven and I will stay here on earth so that I can look after you. You are the one who keeps me smile and happy. Like what you have said, you are my life too and I will promise to love you more than I do now!

 

There are lot’s of misunderstanding pass in our relationship and we fixed it all. We are still ok beE!, I still you love you! so much! and I care for you so much! I will promise you beE!! I will not leave you till my last breath. Always keep in your mind that I love you so much!!! I LOVE YOU beE!!!

 

Like the usual scenarios of commuting to school, I spend money for two rides. But yesterday, by second ride, I never regretted why I spent my cash for that rusty jeepney. It’s because, it has something to do with a new lesson I’ve learned, but this time, it came from a backstabber. Here’s the story:

Just when I stepped right inside the jeepney I was mentioning, a woman at about 20 years of age immediately caught my attention. She had a young child sitting on her lap perhaps her son, and it’s as if the child wasn’t comfortable at all since I’d notice his feet were crossed beyond the other passenger’s legs. Without a single sign of care for this lady’s youngster, she’d even gladly continue her texting. And there was even a chance when her child’s head was almost half out the window, "Oh my God! What if a speeding truck slides right our ride’s side, I’d definitely stain my white polo with blood!" I thought, why the heck should she rather spend her valuable time for her cell phone than her son? Anyway, this was not the real lesson though. What really made me feel again that rage was when this lady stepped out the jeepney when she asked the driver to put her down on one corner. It took about 30 seconds before she was completely out the vehicle. I had to make a complement, but I chose to keep it just inside my mind. After she’s gone out and the jeepney’s starting to move once again: loud whispers, murmurs, negative reactions and a lot more forms of backstabbing were already initiated absolutely on the same environment we were in. Of course, I’m not the type who’d suddenly butt in on their affairs. All that was in my mind was the thought, "here goes gossip!"

I don’t know, but everytime I hear a single word of a gossip, I feel like looking for a baseball bat and slam it right away to that person doing it. I just can’t understand why the heck they have to do this. If they just had the guts to scold that young mom who went down seconds past, she could have learned a valuable lesson. Probably, with what just wasn’t able to happen, the next time I’d meet that woman again, I’d still see her texting while her child’s sitting on her thighs. I’d still have those with me the tremble when I almost felt like the child’s going to die. And of course, I’d still hear the noise annoyingly in execution by those blabbermouths.

All they did was watch her doing as she wished. She could have been reprimanded by the elders, well in fact, most of the passengers inside the jeepney were estimatedly above 30 years old. This is about enough age to be considered as trustable source for values education. But for me, they’ll never be able to get their reputations back. I can no longer trust someone who just killed but still amazingly lectures other people not to do so. Their credibilities are already too far down from my standards. And what do you know, later, the elders got into a much more serious discussion. They were already talking about this generation’s youth, on how the attitude and values of the youth were (don’t mind how I was able to listen from their discussion, they were actually talking aloud). Shame! I hope the elderly would hear from me. There are things that they are always blaming to the kids. Well in fact, all who are to blame are them. Why? Because the rate how we, the youth, are exposed to evil, greatly depends on their care and means of discipline!