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Los Angeles - Actress Kirsten Dunst has become the latest celebrity to enter rehab, a source close tothe "Spider Man" and "Marie Antoinette" star told People magazine on thursday. Dunst, 25 has checked into the exclusive Cirque Lodge Center in Utah, People reported, the same facility that housed starlet Lindsay Lohan last year and where actress Eva Mendes is currently being treated. People Cited a source as saying that Dunst had entered rehab after the pleas of friends. The Actress is due to appear in the romantic comedy "How to Lose Friends and Alienate People" later this year.

Parents who are insecure with themselves project their insecurity to their children by being overprotective. This stunts the growth of children in relating to the outside environment.

A family is a system open to influences from the outside world. So when paretns put out too many rules that are rigid and suffocating, the give their chidlren no room for growth outside the home as they are now allowed to interact with others. Parents should realize this: The ony love that has separation as its goal is ‘parental’ love. This means when you love your child, your goal is to separate from him eventually. This would prepare the child to be his own person, and once he’s out from you, he can survive on his own. 

An uncertain future, each time an agony of selfdoubt, of confusion, of terror lying ahead," lamented of my friend ( sorry I will not mention his name ) about the kind of life he leads.

My friend is a gay who runs a boutique in the downtown of davao city. He said, " Life is really unfair. In every game of love that we play, we always end up the loser.

Like what happened to me. I had an affair with a young man in his early teens. I met him in a movie house. It just started with a conversation. The next time I knew it, we were in bed. Things just happened so fast," he recalled. "Since then, my life became more colorful and more exciting. How I wished it would go on forever. But just like any  relationship doomed from the start, it had to end. I was devastated upon learning that he was marrying his childhood sweetheart in the province. It was so painful. The pain is so gnwaing I thought I would die," said to my friend, lighting a cigarette.

"I was a fool sending him to college. In the end, somebody else got the reward. Next time." He vowed, drawing a deep breath from his cigarette as circles of smoke formed in the air." I’ll be more careful. I have already learned my lesson."

My friend whipped out his wallet and showed me a snapshot. "Doesn’t he look like Richard Gomez? (one of the known pinoy artist) I nodded in approval. Then, he gazed at a distance and said in a flat tone, "Well, that’s water under the bridge now. I don’t want to think about it anymore." He smiled sadly and as if forgetting I was around, he blurted out, "But that was a memory worth remembering. I have no regrets." Asked if he would fall in love again, he replied swiftly, full of confidence. "Of course! I will. But, as I’ve said, I’ll be more wary. I’ll use my head instead of my heart."

My friend is just one of the gays in the midst who have always been vulnerable objects of men who take advantage of their weaknesses; of men who bargain their passions for money. In the past, homosexuals were treated as outcasts in our society. Although they are now accepted, they still have to contend with sarcasm and mixed emotions from other people.

"It is not my fault to be born this way. This is not my own making," explained my friend. "I don’t really understand why some people look at us as if we’re afflicted with a dreadful disease! They should blame it on my parets," he added.

There is a popular notion that parents are somehow responsible for their children’s homosexuality. However according to Rita L. Atkinson, a psychiatrist, in her book introduction Psychology, parental influence is not a major factor in determining sexual preference. Sexual preference appears to depend on a complex pattern of feelings and reaction within the child that are not yet understood and cannot be traced to a single social and psychological cause.

According to Atkinson, although many people still view homosexuality as abnormal, most psychologists and psychiatrists consider it to be a variant rather than perversion of sexual expression and not in itselft an indication of mental illness. 

My attention was totally struct when I have read to the news papers that there is an herbal ‘cigarette’ may help smokers quit. Now I want to share to you what I have put in my mind to the newspaper I have read earlier.

Thought science has proven that cigarette smoking kills, many people are unable to kick the hapib. It has been found that nicotine is addicting. Dr. Lynn T. Kozlowski, an addiction expert at Pennsyvania State University, said addiction could generally be defined as ” the repeated use of a psychoactive drug which is difficult to stop.”

Ramon Tan, founder of Carica Herbal Health Products Inc. thinks herbal cigarettes may be the solution. Tan is the maker of the herbal cigarette brands Stop-a-Habit and Herbala sold in Carica’s main store in Makay City and other outlets nationwide. He said products are made from a blend of 36 herbal plants from the Philippines, India, Africa, China and South America.

Today I was absent to all of my subject because I am not feeling well and what makes me not feel well is this damn coldness. I can’t go out to my room and I was only laying down to my bed. I am not happy no more, I am so lonely in here. why it is this happening? I don’t know either too. I’m cold and I want to get this damn coldness in my body. Now I writting my blog so that I can’t think too much for the wrong thoughts that is running all over my mind.

My coldness is started yesterday and I think it is because of the atmosphere that surrounds me. I am so lonely last night and I can’t sleep. Like I am all alone in the dark that no one other people is living. I hope this damn coldness will end and I can recover to the good ways.

I have to go because I am so sleepy still.